Using the term ‘leader’ can be highly misleading.  After all, we all ‘lead’ something in our lives.  It may be ourselves, or other people (be it an employee, a spouse, a child etc.).  But we all take the ‘lead’ at some point.  Perhaps the word ‘responsible’ is more apt.  Because we should take ‘responsibility’ for what happens to us, regardless as to what it is, why and how.